A Woman is like a wave. When she feels loved her self esteem rises and falls in a wave motion. When she is feeling really good, she will reach a peak, but then suddenly her mood may change and her wave crashes down. The crash is temporary. After she reaches bottom suddenly her mood will shift and she will again feel good about herself. Automatically her wave begins to rise back up.
When a woman’s wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, but when it falls she feels her inner emptiness and needs to be filled up with love. This time of bottoming out is a time for emotional housecleaning.
If she has suppressed any negative feelings or denied herself in order to be more loving on the upswing of her wave, then on the downswing she begins to experience these negative feelings and unfulfilled needs. During this down time she especially needs to talk about problems and be heard and understood.
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, by John gray


This struck too close to home! Which is why I felt the need to share. I’ve often felt, to have a happy relationship with husband and family, love is simply not enough. Money plays a role too, as does understanding each other’s nature and feelings. By money, I certainly do not mean there should be an abundance of it- but there should be enough to make the ends meet- comfortably! To understand each other as an individual as well as a woman/man is of ultimate importance. Reading John Gray not only gave me an insight to what kind of nature men have and how it is different from ours’; it also helped me towards a greater understanding of my nature, my mood swings and feelings.